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Thursday, 27 July 2017

Lagos court saves 13-year-old childless marriage, reconciles couple



The intervention of the court’s President, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, and the couple’s families helped in resolving the couple’s differences including infidelity. Omilola urged the couple to give peace a chance in the marriage and be law abiding. “Since the court was able to reconcile the couple through thorough counseling, I urge both of you to go home and live in peace and love,” he said. Earlier, the petitioner, Akande sought the court to end marriage, saying “my wife accused me of buying a car for my girlfriend so she seized my car key. “I begged her to give me my car key but she refused. Her family intervened by pleading with her to release the car key to me but their pleas fell on deaf ears.” He alleged that his wife was in the habit of fighting him, adding that, “my wife derived pleasure in tearing my clothes whenever she fights me. “There was a day she tore my clothes in the presence of her father.” The embittered husband also accused his wife of always stealing his money. He said:“My wife stole my money in the house and also burgled my office and stole all the money in my drawer.” The 52-year-old businessman said his wife always accused him of infidelity, saying “anytime my wife sees me with any woman, she will be fighting and accusing me of dating her. “For how long will I continue with these allegations? I can no longer talk or laugh with a woman because I am married to Omolade. “I am a businessman, I sell land and both men and women come or call to buy land or building from me. “My wife once seized my phones after I received a call and accused me of talking to a woman. It took the intervention of our pastors before she released the phones to me after a week.” The petitioner told the court that his wife had no respect for him or for her own father, describing her as a stubborn woman. “Due to her stubbornness and my persistent complaints over her misdemeanors, her father advised me to seek the dissolution of the marriage,” he said. He, therefore, urged the court to terminate the barren marriage that has nothing to show “for both now and the future.” However, Omolade, 45, said she seized her husband’s car key because he refused to pay her the money he borrowed from her but he had money to buy a car for a girl. “I was not happy when I heard that my husband bought a car for a girl while he still owes me N220, 000.” Omolade, a businesswoman, also accused her husband of always drinking to stupor, adding that whenever she scolded him, he would turn it to a fight. “My husband always comes home around 1:00 a.m., drunk and whenever I cautioned him, he fights me,” she alleged. Omolade, however, denied stealing her husband’s money and lamented the tag of a barren woman put on her by the husband. “My husband calls me a barren woman but I had three children during the 13-year-old of our marriage, but they all died,” she said. The respondent urged the court not to grant her husband’s wish, insisting that she still loves him. (NAN)

She cant stop going to night clubs, parties with men – Husband



Customary Court on Thursday dissolved the 6-year-old marriage between Mr Fatai Badmus and his wife, Sade, on grounds of adultery, lack of care and love for the children.
Badmus, 35, an artisan, living at No.12, Odo-Ado Street, along Federal Polytechnic, Ado-Ekiti, told the court that the respondent was wayward and he could not tolerate her anymore.
He said that the respondent often leave the house with the excuse that she was going to where she works as a caterer and would not come home for two days, leaving her two children.
The petitioner said ‎the respondent started her bad attitude two years ago when she was selling fruit drinks.
The father of two children said that the respondent was fond of going to night clubs and parties with men, without considering the welfare of her children at home.
He told the court that the respondent was also fond of wearing indecent dresses and goes out with different men.
Badmus begged the court to dissolve the marriage because he no longer love her.
The petitioner’s parents, Alhaji Suleiman Badmus and Mariam, who also testified, said that the respondent is wayward and dresses indecently.
They both agreed to the dissolution of the union to enable the petitioner have peace of mind.
The respondent denied all the allegations levelled against her.
She ‎said that she is not cheating on her husband, adding that the petitioner was fond of nagging and checking her phone on daily basis.
The respondent opposed the dissolution of the marriage.
Mrs Olayinka Akomolede, President of the Court, after hearing from the parties, ruled that the marriage had broken down irretrievably and consequently dissolved the union.
She ruled that the custody of the eldest child of the marriage, Jamiu, 6, be awarded to the petitioner, ‎while the second child, Fawas,3, was given to the respondent.
Akomolede further ruled that the petitioner shall be paying N3,‎500 as monthly feeding allowance for Fawas.
She ordered that ‎when Fawas attains the age of six, the respondent should release him to his father.

The president ruled that the petitioner shall‎ be responsible for the children’s education at all levels.
Unrestricted access was granted to both parties to visit the child not under their custody from 8a.m. to 6p.m.

Denying husbands sex is abuse –Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh





A Malaysian lawmaker came under fire Wednesday for saying that women who deny their husbands sex were subjecting them to “psychological and emotional abuse”. 

Che Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh, a Muslim MP from the ruling coalition, said during a parliamentary debate on domestic violence that husbands often suffer emotional attacks rather than physical abuse. “Even though men are said to be physically stronger than women, there are cases where wives hurt or abuse their husbands in an extreme manner,” said the lawmaker, a member of the United Malays National Organisation. 

“Usually, it involves wives cursing their husbands — this is emotional abuse. They insult their husbands and refuse his sexual needs. “All these are types of psychological and emotional abuse.” Marina Mahathir, a prominent women’s rights activist, said the lawmaker’s view was “based on ignorance”. “Women have a right to say no to sex — this is an old notion that when you marry a women you own her body,” she told AFP. “It does not work that way. It is ridiculous to say men are abused if women say no to sex.” The 58-year-old lawmaker, from Terengganu state in Malaysia’s Muslim heartland, also said that denying a Muslim man the chance to marry a second wife amounted to abuse. It is legal for Muslim men in Malaysia to have many as four wives. But they must obtain permission from an Islamic, or shariah, court to marry more than one. More than 60 percent of Malaysia’s population of over 30 million are Muslim. The MP made the comments Tuesday during a debate on amendments to domestic violence legislation. 

It is not the first time a lawmaker has sparked controversy with comments about women — a member of Malaysia’s ruling coalition said in April that girls as young as nine were “physically and spiritually” ready for marriage.


WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH TWO PEOPLE

   
Have you ever found yourself falling for someone when you’re already in a committed relationship? Have you ever been in love with two people at the same time? If you have, you aren’t alone.
While it may infuriate your partner or seem morally unethical, falling in love with two people is as simple as falling in love with one person.
It’s no different, and it really shouldn’t be.
After all, love is an emotion that can be experienced when the symptoms are right.
You like someone a lot, you find them attractive, and you’re sexually excited to be with them, and bam! You fall in love. Now you meet someone else. You find them attractive, and you’re sexually excited to be with them, and bam again! You fall in love again with a new person!
Are you in love with two people?
It’s ridiculous to assume you can’t fall in love with two people. Many teenagers and even lovers in committed relationships feel threatened when they find themselves in love with two people. Relax. You really don’t love your partner any less just because you find yourself falling in love with someone new. It could happen to anybody.
Can a person fall in love with two people at the same time?
The answer is simple, yes, you can.But the bigger question is, do you want to?
Falling in love with two people and holding both of them close to your bosom is not as easy as it sounds. At the same time, love is not and has never been a once in a lifetime experience. You fall in love with different people in different ways. And at times, you end up feeling romantically excited towards two different people at the same time.
While falling in love with someone is inevitable, it’s still in your control to pursue it or let it go. If you really want to, you can avoid falling in love with a second person by simply taking a step back and putting a stop to the flirty conversations and the sneaky dates. The feelings of love and lust may linger for a while and fade away, and the best part is that it won’t emotionally confuse and torment you. 
How do we end up falling in love with two people?
As I’ve mentioned earlier, falling in love is not an exclusive and unique emotion that never repeats itself. But that being said, it’s not really easy to fall in love with two people at the same time.
It’s always easier to fall for someone else when you’re already in a later stage of love with your present partner. When you’re in two different stages of love, the emotions you experience don’t contradict each other. And it’s two unique experiences that come together at once.be passionately in love for the first few months with your partner, but mature love is very different from the passionate fiery love you experience at the beginning of a relationship. So when you experience the same fiery passion with someone else, it’s easy to experience both stages of love at once.
Don’t compare your lovers
Most people who fall in love with someone new start comparing their new flame to their older lover. And almost always, they assume the new lover is sexier, more loving and more caring. But is that really true?
Remember, sexual passion may fizzle out as the years go by, but true love matures into a happy relationship. On the other hand, a new lover may excite you and remind you of your earlier years in love, but you have to realize that the lusty excitement of the new secret relationship will only last for a few months or a few years. So if you ever have to compare your lovers, compare them for the compatibility instead of the passion. After all, there are always ways to bring back the sexual chemistry even in an older relationship. 
The problems of being in love with two people
As a society, we’re not ready to fall in love with two people at the same time. And that’s the biggest problem there is. You may truly love someone other than your partner, but it’s always looked at as an illicit affair, not a budding romance.
So the best way to deal with the problem of being romantically involved with two people is to walk away from one person. It’s hard, but it is still the best way out.
But if you do want to have two lovers and can’t imagine parting with any of them, here are a few things you need to think about and work your way around it.
# Would you partner accept it?
If you want to be in love with two people at the same time, you have to let both your partners know about it. Do you think your partner would have the emotional maturity and strength to accept your choice?
# Jealousy in love
You may try to balance your love life with two partners and make sure you give both your lovers equal attention, but can you ensure that one of your partners will not end up feeling jealous about the other?
# Would your partner want to get even?
Let’s face it. You have two lovers, and you get to have twice the fun all the time. What would you do if your partner wants to get even and tries to have a sexual relationship with someone else just to satiate their bruised ego?
# Morally unethical
When you share your bed with two lovers, it’s not something that’s morally accepted. Can you deal with that?
I have a friend who’s immigrated to the United States from a little community in Tibet where polyandry (a woman has multiple husbands) is actively practiced. She has two fathers and she has no idea who her biological father is, and since she’s given equal parental love from both the men, she has no intention of ever wanting to know who her real father is. While such forms of love are commonly accepted without any psychological effects in some scenarios, it can lead to confusing relationships in other cases over the long term.
What to do when you’re in love with two people?
The answer is subjective, but simple. Do what you feel is right. It can’t get easier than that. In most cases, the best possible way to deal with falling in love with two people would be to break away from one relationship and live happily with the other.
And if it’s just a little crush we’re talking about, then perhaps, you don’t need to confuse yourself over your emotions. Crushes come and go, and even if it does turn serious, you always have the option of walking away from a new prospective lover if you must.
Ask me and I’d tell you one thing. Love is complicated, and it’s easier to be in love with one person, whoever you may pick. Pick two and you’ve just doubled your complications. So unless you really have no choice, try not to fall in love with two people at the same time!

SPECIAL DELIVERY TIPS FOR FIRST TIME MOTHER





Of the joys and challenges you face in life, none is more extraordinary than having your first baby. From the moment you find out that you are pregnant to the day you give birth, you will experience many changes and learn new ways to take care of yourself and your growing baby.
We want you to thrive on this journey to motherhood, and we have developed a special approach to care around your unique needs as a first-time mother. we have compiled the following information about childbirth and created these "Special Delivery Tips for First-Time Mothers," 


For Early Labor

Because you have never experienced labor before, you may find it difficult to know if you are in labor. Before heading to the hospital, call your physician or midwife to discuss your labor symptoms.

It is common for first-time mothers to make more than one trip to the hospital. If you are in early labor (cervix is less than 3 centimeters) and sent home, the following activities may be helpful: walking, showering, resting, drinking fluids, renting a video, listening to music, etc.

Once you are in active labor, literature shows and we have found that admitting a first time mother to the hospital at this time is best for helping labor progress with minimal interventions and having a vaginal delivery. In active labor, the contractions are less than 5 minutes apart, lasting 45 to 60 seconds and the cervix is dilated 3 centimeters or more.


Induction

Although inducing labor may be needed for certain medical problems or prolonged pregnancies, induction for a first-time mother carries additional risk. Induction of labor for a first-time mother, (especially with a cervix that is nearly closed), doubles or triples the length of labor and possibility of a Cesarean birth. However, in subsequent pregnancies, the chances for a Cesarean delivery after induction are lower.

Comfort and Pain Management

Pain is a natural part of labor and every woman is unique in the level of pain she can tolerate. Women also have varying success with the kind of activities or interventions that can help decrease their labor pain and increase their comfort. Described below are three types of activities and interventions: comfort measures, medication and regional anesthesia.
Comfort Measures

There are several effective approaches to pain relief that every woman should try throughout labor. Any of the following approaches with which you feel comfortable can be used during your labor:

  • Keeping a restful environment in your labor room (quiet, low lighting, soothing music). Carefully select support people for a calm environment
  • Walking
  • Water therapy (e.g., shower or tub)
  • Sitting or leaning on a birthing ball or rocking chair
  • Using various positions (e.g., all fours, sitting on the toilet, kneeling, squatting, pelvic rock) and supporting with pillows if necessary
  • Massage/back rubs by support person
  • Effleurage (light massage of abdomen)
  • Having your partner or a support person rub a tennis ball over your lower back
  • Applying warm or cold compresses
  • Using relaxation/breathing techniques
  • Prayers or religious ceremonies
  • Guided meditation using calming imagery
Using several comfort techniques is an excellent way to involve first-time partners in supporting and working with you in the childbirth process.
Medication

For some women, as labor progresses and contractions become stronger, or they get too tired to cope, comfort measures no longer provide enough relief. Pain medications are commonly used at that point, and your physician or midwife will explain the benefits of each type and will help you select the appropriate medication that is safe for you and your baby. You may want to discuss medications in advance of labor with your doctor or midwife.

Medication may not totally eliminate labor pain, but can help ease it so you can better rest and cope with the discomfort. Continue to use comfort measures that help you relax as much as possible between contractions. Except in early labor, the most commonly used medications are short acting, minimizing the effect on the baby. For some women, no other medications are necessary to help cope with labor pains.

Regional Anesthesia (Epidural, Spinal or Intrathecal Medications)

If you reach a point in active labor that comfort measures and/or medication are no longer giving you adequate pain relief, your physician or midwife may order regional anesthesia to provide stronger pain relief. The anesthesiologist inserts a needle in your lower back to administer regional anesthesia. The goal of regional anesthesia, especially after your cervix is completely dilated, is to reach a balance between easing your feeling of pain and still feeling the urge to bear down to actively participate in delivering your baby. The various methods of regional anesthesia are discussed in the section on medications. Talk to your physician or midwife in advance of labor about regional anesthesia, and tour the hospital in order to find out what types of regional anesthesia are available.


Episiotomy

  • Over the last ten years, the national trend has been to avoidroutine episiotomies, only performing the procedure when necessary. What used to be a national episiotomy rate of 60 to 80 percent for first-time mothers has decreased to less than 20 percent.


  • The main concern is that the episiotomy will extend into the rectum during delivery. This may lead to greater problems with bowel control (loss of gas or stool) both short and long term. Twenty years ago, the teaching was that episiotomy might prevent these problems. We now know that is not the case and episiotomy appears to actually increase the rate of these problems.


  • For your first delivery, you are encouraged to discuss with your physician or midwife (and their partners if in a group practice) at one of your last prenatal appointments, or when you are in early labor, their use of episiotomies.


  • Close to 70 percent of women will have a natural tear with the birth of their first baby, usually involving less tissue and trauma than an episiotomy.

Pushing

  • Also known as the second stage of labor, pushing starts sometime after the cervix is completely dilated (10 centimeters).


  • It is important to wait for the natural urge to bear down before starting active pushing. For years, women have been encouraged to push by "holding your breath and push as long and hard as you can." Research has suggested that a woman's spontaneous urge to push occurs 3 to 5 times during a contraction while the woman is exhaling and bearing down. If you use an epidural, you may be encouraged to rest until you have the sensation to push. Women who receive epidural anesthesia for labor may have difficulty pushing, especially if the strength of the anesthetic numbs the sensation to bear down. The practice of "delayed pushing" while waiting for the baby to passively come through the birth canal is currently being studied in women using epidurals as an alternative to routine pushing at 10 centimeters.


  • There may be circumstances, such as having a strong regional anesthetic, or an arrest of labor, where you may not feel the urge to push. In the event of such a circumstance, you will be assisted with pushing.


  • Upright positioning of sitting, squatting or standing allows gravity to help you push.


  • Allowing the baby's head to gradually stretch the tissue at the outlet of the vagina (perineum) will reduce the risk of a significant tear. Delivering on your side is associated with fewer significant tears.


  • During second stage labor, your uterus pushes the baby down the birth canal (passive descent).


  • Perineal massage (gradual stretching of the vaginal and perineal tissues) from 36 weeks on has been associated with fewer perineal tears. Ask your physician or midwife for information on perineal massage.


  • If your obstetrician or midwife is concerned about you or your baby's health, he or she may opt to shorten the second stage of labor by using a vacuum extractor or forceps on the baby's head (performed by the physician). These procedures rarely carry a health risk to you or your baby.


  • The breathing techniques used for pushing vary and depend upon what works best for you.

     Breastfeeding tips

  • It is important to put the baby to breast 30 to 60 minutes after birth.


  • Within the first hour of life, your baby is most alert and interested in nursing. Your baby is eager to meet you and needs the colostrum (initial fluid from your breast) for energy and protection against infection.


  • After the first 1 to 2 hours, your baby will become sleepy and more difficult to nurse.
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      Your baby must always be placed in the car seat, beginning with the ride home from the hospital.



Tuesday, 25 July 2017

CAN YOU DATE WITHOUT SEX?



Most people make empty promises before going into a relationship saying sex is not the main thing in a relationship that all they want is love and time, and they actually made that known to thier partner, saying "NO SEX" some partner respond affirmatively, while some will come out straight down "I CANT DO IT"  beign affirmative both partner  tends to feel the urge for sex after 6month or thereabout, which may lead to cheating or break-up 
Statistics shows that 2 out of 5 girls who embark in a NO SEX relationship tend to cheat on their partner. And 1 out of 5 girls tend to break up cos they are sex starved, considering the enviroment we are now is it possible to date someone and not have sex, and yet remain honest in the relationship? 

Monday, 24 July 2017

100 SIGNS SHE ISN'T MARRIAGE MATERIAL


Not every woman you date… hell, not even every woman you fall in love with is someone you want to have for a wife. In this day and age, marriage isn’t really treated as the sacred commitment it once was, but in my opinion, you should still at least make a good college effort to make it last. If you’re really planning on spending the rest of your life with one woman, you better make damn sure she’s the right one. Here are more than a few signs that she’s not.

1. She’s Clingy

Let’s start simple, shall we? Everybody wants to be with someone who feels they can’t live without them, but when she takes that too literally, it’s suffocating and it will drive you crazy. Run.

2. She Complains When You Go Out With The Guys

Sticking with the obvious, this is a huge red flag. Not letting you hang with your friends means she wants to be the only person in your life, and that’s a recipe for disaster.

3. She Thinks She Can Change You

Ah, this little nugget is as old as time. She thinks you have potential to be exactly what she wants, and it’s her job to shape you into it. Well, guess what? This has never once, in the entire history of relationships, ever been successful.

4. She’s Jealous

A little jealousy is fine—after all, you don’t want her flirting with other dudes, right? But if she flips out every time a woman crosses your field of vision, you’ve got your work cut out for you, my friend.

5. She Doesn’t Trust You

This is really an extension of #4, but we’re going for 100 here, so bear with me. The truth is, this extends beyond jealousy into something deeper. She wants to know where you are and who you’re with every second of the day, and that’s just not gonna fly. You know what all good relationships are built on, right?

6. She’s Controlling

She only cares about your opinion and tries to force you into agreeing with her. She decides where you go and what you do. Might as well hand over your balls, because you sure as hell aren’t using them.

7. She Has No Confidence

She doesn’t think she’s good enough for anything, not her job, not her friends and not you. It may seem cool to be held up to such a lofty position, but that’s not someone you want as a partner.

8. She Wears A Stud In Her Tongue

Every time I see one of those, I think the same thing: “That girl has probably had a whole lot of dicks in her mouth.”

9. Her Daddy Pays Her Credit Card Bill

This girl has never had to learn anything about fiscal responsibility and will more than likely spend all the money you have and some you don’t.

10. It’s Your Second Date And She’s Already Talking About Marriage

This girl just wants to get married, period. And she’s not that discerning anymore. She’s not thinking, “I’m madly in love and want to spend the rest of my life with this guy.” It’s more like, “He’ll do.”

11. She Doesn’t Get Along With Her Mother

Whatever issues she has, she should’ve worked that shit out by the time she was nineteen. It doesn’t bode well for how she handles close relationships if she can’t manage to get along with her own mother.

12. She Gets Along With Her Mother Too Well

On the opposite side of the coin, if she’s on the phone with her mom five times a day, then she hasn’t grown up enough to get married. You’ll basically be married to your own mother-in-law, and that sounds horrible.

13. She Can’t Name All Four Members Of The Beatles

There are some things that every single person on planet Earth should know, and this is one of them. Even that goofy bullshit she calls music wouldn’t exist today without those guys.

14. She’s Never Seen STAR WARS

Because… I mean… come on.

15. She’s Been In A Three-Way With Two Dudes

It would be tough to get that image out of your head. Like a pig on a spit.  And I don’t think it needs to be mentioned, but a three-way with another chick is completely acceptable—nay, encouraged.

16. She’s Always Late

Someone once told her she was worth waiting for and boy, did she run with it. She’s making you wait for hours on end as a way of controlling you. If she’s not ready when she says she’s going to be, just leave without her—she will definitely break up with you and you’ll be all the better for it.

17. She Talks About How Much She Hates Men

Ah, the man-hater. She’s been dicked over time and time again, or at least that’s her story. She tells you what she loves about you is that you’re different from all the other guys she’s ever been with. But guess what? You’re not.

18. She Thinks She’s Prettier Than She Is

The opposite is so much more attractive. I don’t want a woman telling me how hot she is. That’s my job.

19. The Only Books She Owns Are Self-Help

If one or two didn’t do the trick, it’s most likely a lost cause. Besides, if she doesn’t read, she’s probably not all that interesting, anyway.

20. She Thinks Dane Cook Is Funny

He’s not.

21. She Starts To Cry Every Time You Have A Fight

Arguing is normal and healthy in relationships. But she can’t take the heat, so she turns on the waterworks. Then you feel like shit. Congratulations, you can look forward to a lifetime of emotional manipulation.

22. She Tells Her Friends EVERYTHING

Women talk—we know this. But there are some things that need to be kept within the confines of the relationship. If you can’t trust her to know where that line is, then you can’t trust her enough to marry her.

23. Her Only Friends Are Dudes

Odds are, there’s a good reason why she doesn’t get along with other women, and it’s probably not their fault. Besides, have you ever had a hot female friend you didn’t want to bang? Didn’t think so.

24. She’s Crazy

This may seem like another obvious one, but crazy chicks are dynamite in the sack, and the way that makes you feel can easily be misconstrued as love. Don’t make excuses for her erratic behavior, just nail her seven or eight times and move on.

25. She Finds Something Wrong With Every Hotel Room

She doesn’t like the view, it’s too close to the elevator, there’s a scratch on the dresser—Jesus Christ, this woman is hard to please. Won’t be long before she’s nitpicking things about you.

26. She’s Bossy

Don’t tell me what to do, bitch.

27. She Owns Too Much Lingerie

I don’t want her wearing anything she used to turn on her exes. Every woman should have only one or two pieces of “fuck me” underwear. The rest should be gifts from you.

28. She’s A Gossip

If she talks about everyone else behind their backs, I guarn-damn-tee you she’s talking behind yours.

29. She Has Daddy Issues

Oh boy. All she wants is approval and presents. She has no idea that men fall into separate categories, and the last thing you want is a daughter for a wife.

30. She Drinks… A Lot

Having a girlfriend who likes to party can be fun early on in the relationship. But it gets old real fast. If she’s still knocking them back like a sorority girl on spring break, you might want to start looking elsewhere.

31. She Uses Sex As A Tool

Rewarding you with sex for gifts or vacations may seem like a fair trade, but once she realizes she can use it to get what she wants, it’s all over for you, my man.

32. She Lied During Your Courtship

Everybody puts their best foot forward in the early stages, but exaggeration or omission is one thing, outright lies are another. If she lied about her age or how many guys she’s been with, then she’s probably lying about what she wants out of a relationship, and what she’s willing to give.

33. She’s A Taker

If you’re the generous sort (and you really should be), you’ll start out giving her gifts and such, because you want to make her happy. But if she comes to expect that as a defining characteristic of the relationship, it means she’s greedy.

34. She Wants The Relationship To Be All About Her

Everything is about what she wants and needs, and yours don’t matter. That’s not to say it should be all about you, either. A married couple is a team, it’s not about one person getting what they want, it’s about what’s best for the team.

35. When The Going Gets Tough, She Gets Going… Out The Door

Some people just don’t want to deal with anyone else’s problems but their own. If she can’t let you lean on her during the hard times, you’re going to find yourself very lonely in your marriage.

36. She Gets Lazy

Once she knows she’s landed you, you might see some things start to slip. She’s not keeping it tight, she doesn’t laugh at your jokes, she stops prettying herself up for you. This is a bad sign and you shouldn’t be guilty of it, either.

37. She Doesn’t Support You

She has to take on your hopes and dreams, and you have to take on hers as well. If she doesn’t help you achieve what you want out of life, find someone else who will.

38. She Has No Hopes And Dreams Of Her Own

It amazes me how many people out there are content simply to exist. I’m not saying you have to try to be a rock star or President of the United States, but goddamn woman. Get off your ass and do something with your life.

39. She’s Cheated Before

What’s in the past is in the past and all that, and circumstances count for something, but more than likely, it means that when things aren’t going her way, she looks outside the relationship to make herself feel better. Cut her loose.

40. She Criticizes Your Hobbies

Unless we’re talking about vintage porn collecting or excessive gambling, your interests are part of what makes you who you are. If she thinks what you do is stupid, then on some level, she thinks you are, too.

41. She Hates Your Friends

Even if they’re the douchiest guys in the world, somewhere out there is a girl who thinks they’re as awesome as you do.

42. She Has cankles

You’ll never get past it.

43. She’s Not In The Mood… Over And Over Again

Hey, every once in a while, you’re not in the mood either, you horny bastard. But if she’s putting you off too much, maybe you’re just not sexually compatible.

44. She Can’t (Or Won’t) Cook

Of all my reasons so far, this one sounds the most sexist, at least by traditional standards. But a lot of women enjoy cooking for their men, and they appreciate it. Men like to eat, godammit.

45. She Never Goes Out With The Girls

Hey, if she’s not blowing off steam with her friends every once in a while, then eventually, you’re going to be her only social outlet. The two of you will be bored with each other inside of a year.

46. She Has No Sense Of Humor

Jesus Christ, lighten up. If you can’t laugh together, what joy do you get out of each other’s company when you’re not fucking? If she can’t take a joke—and give one back every once in a while—it just sucks all the air out of a relationship.

47. She Won’t Try New Things In Bed

If this is going to be the last woman you’re ever going to sleep with, you’re going to want her to be a little adventurous. If she says no to everything from role-playing to anal intercourse, you better have a vivid imagination and a fast internet connection.

48. She Keeps Score

If she’s constantly reminding you of times when you stayed out too late, came home too drunk or whatever, and using those times as bargaining chips, then you, my friend, are screwed.

49. She Changes Her Mind Too Much

It may be a woman’s prerogative, but if she can’t hold down a job and never wears the same thing twice, she has commitment issues and probably won’t spend the rest of her life with anything or anyone.

50. She’s An Attention Whore

If she wants all eyes on her all the time, then that’s a pretty good sign the only person she cares about is herself.

51. She’s A Complainer

The world has too many of these. You don’t want one around you all the time. Find something positive to say every once in a while.

52. She’s Not Comfortable In Her Own Skin

If she doesn’t love herself, she’ll never be able to love you.

53. She’s Not Your Best Friend

Here’s the test: would you want to hang around this woman even if you weren’t banging her? If not, you need to find someone else.

54. She Has Nothing In Common With You

Whether it’s politics, religion or taste in movies, you need to see eye to eye on some things. If you can’t agree on anything, then the relationship will never feel like a safe place.

55. She Has Too Much In Common With You

If you only like a woman who likes everything you like, you’re just looking for a version of yourself with boobs. While you need to agree on the big things, leave some room for differences. It will help you challenge each other and add a spark to the relationship in the long term.

56. She Slept With You On The First Date

Well, here we go. Sorry if you think I’m being sexist again, but there’s just nowhere to go from here. Passion and connection are great, and maybe it’s just the society we live in, but you gotta make me work for it a little. Don’t let me into the holy temple until I’ve earned it.

57. She Talks About Kids Too Much

The problem here, even if you want kids yourself, is that she might just want kids and it’s not so important who gives them to her. Make sure you’re number one until the rugrats come along.

58. She’s Had Three Or More Dicks In Her Ass

I’ve mentioned that before, but it bears repeating. You want a woman to draw the line somewhere, and that line should be her asshole.

59. She Texts During A Movie

This should be a strict zero-tolerance policy.

60. She Pops Her Gum

This is so fucking annoying.

61. She Likes Mischief

A girl with a mischievous streak can be fun for a while as long as you’re not on the receiving end of it. But in a long-term relationship, eventually, you will be.

62. She’s Never Wrong

Like a lot of things on this list, this applies to you, too. You don’t want to be with someone who can never admit to being wrong. It’s exhausting and will frustrate you to no end.

63. She Thinks She’s Above You

If she holds herself up as being smarter or better than you in some way, that’s bullshit. Even if it’s true. You need to see each other as equals if a marriage is ever going to work.

64. She Has A Penis

Unless, you know, that’s your thing. No judgments.

65. She Wants To be An Old-Fashioned Wife

So, you don’t want your woman to work, you just want her to cook, clean, take care of the kids and always look beautiful? We don’t live in the 1950’s, and the world just doesn’t work that way anymore. If that’s what she wants, then you can bet she’s got deeper issues.

66. She’s Too Independent

Now, before you go getting all upset, hear me out. Of course you want an independent wife, but what you don’t want is a woman who’s got something to prove. She doesn’t need anyone, she can do it all herself, etc. Marriage is a team and no one can be a ball hog.

67. She Wants You To Give Something Up

Unless that something is a drug addiction, this should be a deal breaker. Relationships are about compromise, not sacrifice, and if she’s making you give up something you love, give her up instead.

68. She Chews With Her Mouth Open

This is gross, which would be reason enough, but what it really says is that no one ever taught her not to do it, which means she had shitty parents. Shitty parents usually spawn shitty people.

69. She Won’t Let You 69

Don’t deny me my favorite thing in the world.

70. She’s Mean-Spirited

Whether she laughs at old people falling down or gets off on exploiting people’s weaknesses, this woman would be better as a Disney villain than your wife.

71. She’s Already Been Engaged (Or Married) More Than Once

Everyone’s entitled to one mistake. But if she’s committed to spend the rest of her life to multiple partners and then bailed on them, that should tell you something.

72. She Has A Pet Other Than A Dog Or A Cat

Girls with snakes or ferrets… I don’t know, they’re just weird. And if she has cats, two’s the limit. More than that is creepy.

73. She Made You Wait More Than Six Dates For Sex

She might think this makes her a good girl, but in a way, this is worse than putting out right away, because she’s using it to control you. I created a little buffer zone here, but the truth is, by the third or fourth date, she should know if she wants to get naked with you.

74. She Has Another Guy’s Name Tattooed On Her Somewhere

That should’ve been lasered off long ago. But I guess you know she’s not afraid of commitment.

75. She Doesn’t Own A TV

That’s just not practical. People without televisions are trying way too hard to be cool.

76. She’s A Drama Queen

Some people like a little added drama in their lives, but if you’re with a girl who makes a mountain of every molehill in her path, you’re going to get tired of dealing with it pretty soon.

77. You Think She’d make A Bad Mother

Even if you’re not planning on having kids, every woman should be at least capable of raising them. You never know what the future holds. And if you think she’d be a bad mother, it’s probably because she’s not nurturing, and that’s something you’re going to need down the road.

78. She’s Too Competitive

A little bit is fine—great, even. But if you can’t play a game of gin without it becoming the battle of the century, move on. Even when you win, you’ll lose.

79. She Doesn’t Take Your Side

In private, she can tell you you’re wrong all she wants, but if you’re at a party and you get involved in a debate—she should either come to your defense or just stay out of it.

80. You Stole Her From Somebody Else

That may seem passionate and romantic, but she probably just got bored in that relationship and stayed in it longer than she should have. You’ll always wonder if the same thing’s going to happen to you.

81. She Stays In Contact With Her Exes

Unless she has a kid, there’s no reason to keep in contact with her exes. You’re lying if you say it doesn’t make you uncomfortable, and if you confront her, she’ll just claim you’re being possessive. She’s not ready to settle down.

82. She Keeps Secrets

If you’re getting married, you should know everything about her. If she’s not open about every aspect of her life, then it’s going to end with you not trusting her, which will poison the relationship.

83. She Doesn’t Think You’re Awesome

You should each think that the other is the greatest person in the world. If she rolls her eyes every time you say something funny or doesn’t brag about you to her friends, you can do better.

84. She’s Demanding

She’s trying to get you to conform to her way of thinking and doing things, and not giving your thoughts and deeds proper respect. Time to hit the road.

85. She Gets Sick A Lot

I’m not talking about serious medical issues. I’m talking about the girl who seems to gets migraines or the flu every time things aren’t going her way. She either wants you to take care of her or is trying to get out of something.

86. She Openly Hates Your Music

Do NOT fuck with my tunes.

87. She’s Constantly Instagramming Photos Of Herself (And Only Herself)

Seriously. Who does that?

88. Her Personal Heroes Are Lorena Bobbitt And Jodie Arias

Yeah… just run, dude. Run and don’t look back.

89. She Compares You To Her Exes

This is tolerable under absolutely no circumstances. If she ever utters the words, “My ex used to…” don’t even wait for the end of the sentence. Just walk out the door.

90. She Can’t Dance

A woman without rhythm just can’t ever be sexy. And you need sexy.

91. She Doesn’t Listen To You

If the only time she ever shuts up is when she’s trying to think of what to say next, you need to part ways with her. She’s not the only one capable of formulating speech. Let her know you need to be heard.

92. She Has An Ugly Mother

Sounds harsh, but…that’s your future, my friend. Just saying.

93. You Met Her At A Strip Club

Whether she was a dancer or a patron… awesome one-nighter material, not so much in the marriage department.

94. She’s had More Than One Abortion

Once again, anyone can make one mistake, but if she didn’t learn her lesson the first time on this one, she’ll never learn anything.

95. She Hates Sports

I’m not saying she has to be a number one fan, but if she can’t even be in the room when you’re watching a game, this is not a girl you want to be with.

96. She Lets You Make A Sex Tape

Of course you want to make one—you’re a guy! But someone has to be responsible when it comes to this. These days, that shit could end up anywhere.

97. She’s A Slob

She doesn’t have to be a neat freak, but it’s just unnatural for a woman to let things go the way guys do. You’ll be living in a freaking pigpen before long.

98. She Sees A Shrink On A Regular Basis

More often than not, this is a sign that she’s more self-absorbed than psychologically unstable. But either way, it’s cause for getting the hell out of there.

99. Her Vagina Stinks

Some people will tell you all vaginas smell like that. They do not. And that may sound like a pretty superficial reason, but Jesus, we’re at #99 here.

100. You Made It To The End Of This List

Seriously, dude. If you got to the 100th sign that you shouldn’t marry your girlfriend, you MUST be looking for somebody else. She’s out there, I promise. So stop wasting time on the wrong girl, quit reading lists off the internet and go out and find her.
SOURCE:http://wallstreetinsanity.com/100-signs-she-isnt-marriage-material/


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